5 Ways to Win a Man's Heart

Updated: 14/3/2013

It seems that my previous post  “8 Ways to Break a Man’s Heart.”  (that I deleted) did not generate much reading attention, I realized that it is mean and not worthy to be posted up here. On a positive note here are my 5 tips on how to win your man's heart.

I am not playing doctor love here, Valentine’s Day is fast approaching and as a pre-Valentine post, here are 5 simple ways to win the man of your dreams or make your husband fall in love with you the second time around. In order to do this you must at least posses characters that men love. All traits or just a combination of these would help make your relationship work. Understanding, kindness, thoughtfulness, strong personality and an inch of sense of humor. Men are also impressed with women who can whip up a tasty dish, stays fit, adventurous and fun loving or a daredevil just like me. My husband used to say I am his adventure buddy and he never had someone like me from his past relationships. See what I mean?

For you to win his heart you may follow my list, it works for me, I know we are all different but when it comes to the idea of pleasing your man, I think we are all the same. Of course there are a lot more ways to win a man's heart but I feel that these work wonders.

1. Become a friend and be a good listener - men don't talk much but when they do, listen. Even already married, keep that friendship for you know that your husband is also your best buddy.

2. No one wants a boring partner, talk and make sense with a little bit of humor

3. It is always true that the best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Learn to cook even at least his favorite dish, when a hearty meal is serve, a man has the appetite not only for food but for a good conversation.

4. Men enjoy good sex. Experiment with him in the bedroom. What I observed among failed relationship or marriages is when sex life gets boring, men try to find someone else to play with. Try some other positions or ways of love making. Be playful and use your imagination. Don't be afraid. This point is for married couples I must say.

5. Keep a clean house or tidy up your dwelling at least. Men who are ready to settle are looking for a woman who can do all the housekeeping and still look pretty and sexy all the time.

I hope that you find this simple tips helpful and easy to follow.

My Yellow Bells

Carla is a lifestyle blogger based in Dubai who's thankful to call this ever-evolving city her second home. The pages of this blog are filled with stories about her expat life in the sandpit. It features dining and travel adventures in and around the city and beyond. It also features food recipes, parenting tips, and fashion style.


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  1. True, those 5 points you mentioned can send a man to his knees with a ring in his hand. But I like #3 and #4 the most. : D

  2. HMMNNN, ask nyo na lang Michel my french mari, sus, tyak sabihin sa inyo, yun lang?

    Dami niya kasi pinagdaanan, sa akin, lol!

    ang alam ko dyan if a lady is feminine, long hair and walk and talk decently, maattract na ang mga men, then good character of course follows.

  3. wow te carla astig ng blogsite mo ah!!! nice blogs and pics...

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